tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3803403813776190163.post5327279147292874824..comments2024-03-09T14:43:58.103-07:00Comments on all kinds of lovely: navigating the roads of friendship dajana, all kinds of lovelyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11927453458193863799noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3803403813776190163.post-68048757964524030562013-12-03T00:12:08.946-07:002013-12-03T00:12:08.946-07:00Thanks for sharing that, Dajana! I feel like peopl...Thanks for sharing that, Dajana! I feel like people end up in similar situations but fail to be courageous enough to confront the sucky situation and take the easy way out. I feel like I'm in a similar situation right now actually ..but what do you do when you're 90% sure the other person doesn't want to talk about it/would rather you be distant than talk about it? But without honesty how can you be truly authentic inyour friendships, right? And oh man, I LOVE Brene!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10308061803631764944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3803403813776190163.post-16140303234038295442013-12-02T19:41:29.088-07:002013-12-02T19:41:29.088-07:00Thanks for sharing your own experience, Sarah. I’m...Thanks for sharing your own experience, Sarah. I’m sorry it didn’t work out between you and your friend. It does take a lot of courage to speak from the heart, especially nowadays. I often feel like people would rather hear BS & lies as opposed to the truth. It reminds me of Kelly Oxford’s book, ”Everything is Perfect When You’re a Liar,” which is about telling it like it is and not sugar coating things. What ever happened to having integrity in relationships?dajana, all kinds of lovelyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11927453458193863799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3803403813776190163.post-29752878268343441732013-12-02T19:38:12.051-07:002013-12-02T19:38:12.051-07:00Thanks so much, Sara! My integrity is all I have s...Thanks so much, Sara! My integrity is all I have so it was important for me to lay all my cards on the table (I have strong a urge to sing The Gambler now). <br /><br />P.S. Brene is da bomb! The hold list to take out her books from the library is super long. dajana, all kinds of lovelyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11927453458193863799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3803403813776190163.post-65351610543322480522013-12-02T18:30:50.164-07:002013-12-02T18:30:50.164-07:00Thanks, Carol! It WAS hard to do. The best part is...Thanks, Carol! It WAS hard to do. The best part is that I feel hopeful moving forward. And that has to count for something, right. dajana, all kinds of lovelyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11927453458193863799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3803403813776190163.post-22562866376140001522013-12-02T17:08:46.774-07:002013-12-02T17:08:46.774-07:00Yeah, cheers to that! Yeah, cheers to that! dajana, all kinds of lovelyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11927453458193863799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3803403813776190163.post-55776223229744097952013-11-26T15:54:55.496-07:002013-11-26T15:54:55.496-07:00Amen, sister! xoxoAmen, sister! xoxochristine, just bellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15250896495149362592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3803403813776190163.post-89139087388546080192013-11-26T11:04:49.346-07:002013-11-26T11:04:49.346-07:00You are a really good friend to be honest. It'...You are a really good friend to be honest. It's the hardest thing to do but so worth it. If it doesn't work out, you know you tried. If it does, your relationship will be so much better. Good job!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16982865122653777067noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3803403813776190163.post-58120529254162235762013-11-26T10:35:32.861-07:002013-11-26T10:35:32.861-07:00love this post so much. it's so inspiring to ...love this post so much. it's so inspiring to continue to be real, especially when it comes to important relationships. i went through a similar situation this summer - i finally built up enough courage to speak from the heart but it landed up blowing up in my face. i still feel right and good about it even though the friendship has lost it's spark. being at peace with yourself is so important. thanks for sharing. xoSarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15221772419926230782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3803403813776190163.post-80711144194635482252013-11-26T09:56:06.676-07:002013-11-26T09:56:06.676-07:00love this Dajana. having hard conversations is... ...love this Dajana. having hard conversations is... well... hard and it takes courage to put it all on the table (even for the sake of a relationship). staying true to who you are is the key to happiness I do believe. Brene Brown is making a killing off us bloggers ;) xo Sara Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13676277456762650249noreply@blogger.com